Regardless of the size of controller, you will only consume what you use. If you drive mild you will probably never notice the extra 100 amps. The larger controller will only come into play when you really get on it and are using 450 or 500 amp. When driving normal and only pulling 100 amps you'll pull the same 100 amps no matter the upper capacity of the controller.
Before purchasing four 100amp batteries I would do some research about the batteries and their charging. Starting with 4 batteries then adding 4 more later for more range is not much an issue with lead. Before attempting the same with lithium's you need to make absolutely sure everything (ALL batteries & charger) is compatible. Most lithium batteries have limitations on how they can be connected together. Some allow hooking them in series but not parallel while others allow both. And all replacement lithiums (the type of pre-packaged battery & BMS you are considering) have a limit on the number of batteries that can be combined.
Before purchasing four 100amp batteries I would do some research about the batteries and their charging. Starting with 4 batteries then adding 4 more later for more range is not much an issue with lead. Before attempting the same with lithium's you need to make absolutely sure everything (ALL batteries & charger) is compatible. Most lithium batteries have limitations on how they can be connected together. Some allow hooking them in series but not parallel while others allow both. And all replacement lithiums (the type of pre-packaged battery & BMS you are considering) have a limit on the number of batteries that can be combined.